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Val Lemieux Photography

Val Lemieux is a rising star among Reno photographers. I have know Val since my kids were preschoolers. In that time, I’ve learned her passion for her craft is a perfect match for her innate creative spirit.

Over the last six weeks, Val and I have been collaborating on a new and exciting holiday photo card line. Together we’ve created a fun, sophisticated and eco-friendly line. I will reveal all the details next Monday. In the meantime, I want you to meet Val. If you are interested in booking a photo session, she is offering a packages that include holiday cards. Above is a taste for what’s coming next week!
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Tell us a little about yourself and your business

My name is Val Lemieux and I have an addiction to laughing. It’s true. I find the best moments in life are the ones where I’m either laughing or flat out can’t breath because I’m laughing so hard.  I was born and raised in Reno, Nevada and after three universities – Boise State, Otago – New Zealand, and UNR, I graduated with a degree in Psychology. I am artistic soul. I take oil painting lessons with my father once a week. I prefer hand crafted gifts vs store bought (Etsy is my latest joy). I find the hum of my sewing machine to be therapeutic and if I have camera in my hand I am home.

I am a Reno Photographer who focuses on Family and Child photography. My shot events include the 2010 RGJ journal jog and 2011 Rock N’ Roll Marathon. My main love is children. Their laughter is the cure to all pains. My goal in every shoot is to capture that one moment where they are laughing with all their heart.

What inspired you to become a photographer?

I got a Canon Powershot as a gift and I fell in love. I mean really in love. I had that camera with me at all times. I would purposely buy purses the camera would fit in. I started off with landscape pictures, but it wasn’t until my niece was born 5 years ago that I discovered that I loved taking pictures of children. I loved capturing her life and watching her grow through my photos. It wasn’t until my second nephew was born and battling colic that I captured a photo that changed my photography from a hobby to a budding career.

How has your photography affected your life?

I see light differently. I see moments in freeze frames. I have also become intrigued in people’s stories. How they met, what they love and what makes them tick.

Who has supported you?

I have an amazing support group. My family has been there for me from the beginning. My sister in laws hired me when I didn’t think any one would. My mother comments on almost all my photos, blogs, hires me all the time and brags me up a storm to perfect strangers. My brother gives me all the legal advice I can comprehend and never fails to remind me that what I am doing is perfect for me. My other brother is supportive and pushes me to strive for my dreams. My father goes on photo hikes and listens to me blab and blab about photography. My boyfriend, who will look at shots with me until he is cross-eyed, but never complains and only offers words of wisdom or helpful critiques. My friends like Yolanda and Lisa are always there to remind me to believe in myself and that I need to value my work more. These people and many more are my backbone. They keep me wanting to perfect myself and my skill.

What have you done to hone your skills?

I read everything I can whether it is books or blogs. I take every class I can from how to work your camera to fun class like “picture summer” from BigPictureClasses that help me work on detail and color shots.  I shoot with any photographer I can. But mostly, I practice. I will place an object on my patio railing outside and just take shot after shot changing the iso, the shutter speed, the aperture. I will play around until I figure out what works. When taking pictures of children, knowing my light and how to manipulate it is key. Kids move fast so, I’ve learned to adjust my settings fast and with confidence.

Painting Reno Red

What have you learned from other photographers?

I have learned to share. When I started really trying to learn how to take better pictures, I met some amazing photographers. They showed me how to improve and showed me their tricks.  I could email them, call them, or just ask them to do a shoot with me and they would. Without them, I would still be on those manual books that will put anyone to sleep. I vowed to help any photographer that contacts me with the same love for photography.

What have you learned the hard way?

Always check to make sure your camera isn’t set to manual focus. I shot a family shoot once and for the first 20 minutes I acted like nothing was wrong, but I was really freaking out inside because I couldn’t get anything to focus. Finally, glanced down to see if I was in the manual focus setting. I finally took my first breath of the shoot and learned to always do a quick run through of my camera before a family shows up: iso, am I on manual focus, is my timer on, do I have extra batteries and memory cards, and to have fun!

Peace.
What classes do you teach? What can you teach others?

I teach a ‘photographing your children’ class at Gordon’s. It’s a two night class that covers tips, tricks, and other helpful facts about your camera and subjects that will help you get better and more creative photos of your children. It’s all about telling your child’s story through photographs.

What is your favorite Reno/Tahoe hotspot?

My hotspot changes with the season. During the summer, it’s all about those beautiful fields. Verdi and Washoe Valley has some amazing fields. During the fall/winter, it’s all about the Galena forests and Thomas Creek. If it is spring, UNR’s campus is blossoming with pink and white flowers that are perfect for portraits. 

Create Explore Discover Art Retreat

The very first Create Explore Discover Art Retreat is happening next week in Truckee, California. My friend, Sarah Stevenson, has organized an incredible weekend to feed the artistic soul. Whether you’re a working artist or you’re seeking a creative outlet, there is something for everyone… Not to mention the beauty of the Sierra Nevadas simply can’t be beat.

Below, Sarah was kind enough to give us all the details including how to join her next weekend. I hope you do. I know it will get your creative embers burning. I’ll be taking Denice Barlow Brown’s Create Your True North on Friday morning.

Tell us a little about yourself and your business

I am originally from Australia but moved to the U.S. when I was 10. My career began in Chicago 25 years ago, where I worked as a corporate interior designer and project manager. I was blessed to have worked with top Fortune 500 companies all over the U.S.. In addition, I was very involved in the architecture and design community in Chicago which has given me a unique view of design and creativity.

I have lived in Northern Nevada for 11 years and founded redlinedesign® 2 years ago. I am a registered interior designer, photographer and teacher. redlinedesign® offers design services, original photography and adult and children’s design and creativity classes.

What is Create Explore Discover?

Create Explore Discover is a special art retreat that was developed out of my love of art, design and creativity. I have taken many online and in person art and design courses and felt that our area would benefit from the artists and the experience that I have gained from them.

Create Explore Discover is a place to:

tap back into your creativity
uncover your secret self
honor lifes special moments
“dig deep into your soul”
get messy and play

When and where will it take place?

Create Explore Discover will take place from October 6-9th, 2011 at the Cedar House Sport Hotel in Truckee, California

Why did you choose this venue?

About five years ago, I read an article in Sunset Magazine about a really cool and unique sport hotel that had just opened in Truckee. I kept the article and the name of the hotel in the back of my head for all those years and decided upon it due to its efforts in sustainability and architecture. With my design background it is my hope to expose people to good design in addition to creative outlets and this venue fits the bill.

What inspired you to create the event?

My inspiration for the event came from a need and desire to help women feel empowered by their own creativity. A few years ago, I had a shoulder injury that required physical therapy. One day I came to therapy completely stressed, overwhelmed and ready to quit. My therapist sat me down and asked if I had time to do what I wanted to do with my day what would it be? I told him that I needed to create and that I loved photography. That afternoon he asked me to go out for 45 minutes and take photos. I listened and found an amazing freedom and sense of relief for taking even that length of time to do something for me, something that tapped back into my own sense of being and my own creativity.

In addition, I have spent many hours speaking with other creatives and moms and it seems that everyone I spoke to had this desire to slow down and take time for themselves. One creative that gave me the push to start the event is Marisa Anne, of Creative Thursday. She will be the keynote speaker at the event and has been my behind the scenes cheerleader since the very early stages of the event.

What classes will be offered?

Classes will be held on Friday and Saturday morning and will include the following:

Friday, October 7

Create Your True North (Denice Barlow Brown) 

Free writing, color, mixed-media, collage and art journal exercises to unearth your deepest values.

Painting with Stitches (Marisa Anne)

Where art meets embroidery. A needle and thread, fabric and maybe a paint brush or two, we will be creating an illustration with embroidery.

Art Treasure Pendants and Charms (Part One) (Liz Kalloch)  

We will spend the  first morning thinking and working small, 1.25” round  to start—creating  an original piece of art to be set into the pendant bezel provided in your  Student Kit. Your piece can be collaged, painted, mixed media-d, or really  anything that your imagination can dream up that will fit into the bezel.

Saturday, October 8

Artful Exploration (Denice Barlow Brown)

An expansion of Friday’s Create Your True North class, this class can also be taken alone. Whether you are brand new to art journaling or have stacks of completed works, you will learn new tips and tricks to make art journaling more joyful, more unique, and more fully yours than ever before.

Art Treasures Pendants and Charms (Part Two)  (Liz Kalloch)

Saturday Morning Class: Our second class will be spent learning about the properties of ICE resin and learning to prepare your artwork for the resin pour, and then pouring and curing the resin. For those of you who want to add dimensionality to your piece we will look at adding beads, flat back cabochons, vintage papers, brass stampings, tiny shells, etc.

Through My Eyes (Sarah Stevenson)  

Have you been wondering how you can take better photos but are afraid of getting too technical? Then this class is for you…We will explore photography from a composition, color and design perspective. No technical mumbo jumbo to confuse you. Just a relaxing three hours of photo investigation, exploration and discovery from your own eyes and your own unique perspective.

We will discuss photography from a composition, color and design perspective and then go outside to take some photos. When we return we will upload our images to a computer and print them on paper for you to create a photo journal.

Who will be teaching?

Marisa Anne of Creative Thursday – Los Angeles, California

Liz Kalloch of Liz Kalloch Design, San Rafael, California

Denice Barlow Brown, Inkstitch, Utah

Sarah Stevenson, redlinedesign®, Reno, Nevada

In addition to great classes, what else do you have planned for participants?

In addition to the classes, we will have afternoon adventure activities on Friday and Saturday. They include: kayaking $90.00; Guided Floral Hike $65.00; or Mountain Biking $85.00. There will be exploration maps available from the hotel if you wish to explore on your own as well.

Each participant will have an opportunity for one on one time with the instructors as the class sizes will be small between 5-10 participants each and additional time in the evening when we have relaxed activities after dinner which will include: cookies and milk, wine and cheese and relaxing by the fire.

On Thursday evening (the opening night of the event) Marisa Anne of Creative Thursday will be our keynote speaker and will be sharing insight on her own journey and creativity in her life. We also have a few surprises for the evening.

Each meal at the retreat will be provided on site by Cedar House Sport Hotels restaurant, Stella Culinary. Stella its own home grown produce (they have vege gardens throughout the property) in preparing its dishes and boats a healthy well balanced menu for its guests.

How can we sign up for classes?

You can sign-up for the event through our website: http://createexplorediscover.com/registration.html

Or, if you are local you can sign up directly with me for this week only via credit card, cash or check. Contact me at sarah@createexplorediscover.com and I can help you out.

How do you imagine CED evolving over the next few years?

In the next few years, I see CED becoming a destination retreat for our area. I am in the process of growing our base of potential participants and I am looking at partnering with other creatives in our region. In addition, I would like to add a children’s retreat and be able to work with non-for profits in the area to develop some sort of giving back program for the event. I would still like to keep the event on the intimate side to allow for the personal interaction to continue…

What is your favorite Reno/Tahoe hotspot?

My favorite Reno/Tahoe hotspot: no question, The Nevada Museum of Art and Lake Tahoe. I don’t get to the museum as much as I would like but the exhibits that I do see are high quality and a great learning opportunity. Lake Tahoe is my go to place to find relaxation and peace and quiet from my day to day activities. I hope to begin some personal photo walks there in the next few months.

Where can we find you?

Email: sarah@createexplorediscover.com and hello@sarahgstevenson.com
Websites: Redline Design, LLC and create.explore.discover
On Twitter: Redline Design, LLC and create.explore.discover
On Facebook Create Explore Discover Art Retreat and Redline Design, LLC
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Create Explore Discover Invitation

The very first Create Explore Discover Art Retreat is happening next week in Truckee, California. My friend, Sarah Stevenson, has organized an incredible weekend to feed the artistic soul.

Sarah asked me to create an invitation for an intimate dinner she’s hosting the night before the retreat. It incorporates the retreat logo and papers that reflect Sarah’s personal and artistic style.

Tomorrow I’ll have an interview with Sarah. She’ll tell us all about the retreat. Be sure to check it out.

OM | Edible Pedal

Last Friday, there was a horrific tragedy at the National Championship Air Races. Thankfully my family was safe at home when it happened, but the thought of it has haunted me all week.

My moment came last Sunday when I was able to let go and enjoy a great day with my family and our closest friends. Together we rode the very first Edible Pedal 100. We did the 10 mile family ride then stayed for mouthwatering food and yummy beer. Next year I plan to wear maternity pants… the food was THAT good.

Family, fresh air and food. Just the distraction my broken heart needed.

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For more real life moments and details about the weekly OM meetup,
please visit Linda on her blog, A La Mode Stuff.

om [one moment] meet up

Wear It Again Soiree Invitation

My Wedding Library and Swoon…a bridal salon are hosting a charity fundraiser, the 3rd Annual Wear It Again Soiree, to benefit the Reno Cancer Foundation. They asked me to create a logo and digital invitation for the event. I jumped at the opportunity.

The Reno Cancer Foundation is a local non-profit I hold near and dear to my heart. In my years as a cancer RN, I saw first hand the helping hand they generously give local families affected by cancer.

Below is the final invitation with all the details. Click here to purchase tickets or make a donation… you’ll be glad you did!

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If you love color or just need a little vibrance to brighten your week, share with us! Collecting Color is a link up hosted by Cyn of RiverDog Prints. It’s a way to share what you’re working on, photographing, DIY-ing, reading or making. Anything goes, as long as it’s colorful and creative.

A Note about the Air Races

I can’t begin my week without a note about the tragedy that occurred on Friday at the National Championship Air Races. As most of you know, a P-51 crashed at the Races on Friday afternoon. The crash violently scattered debris into the VIP box seating area. So far, 10 people, including the pilot, have died and 69 have been treated for devastating injuries at local hospitals.

My heart breaks for the loved ones of the deceased, the injured and their families, emergency personnel and medical professionals caring for the victims, and those who witnessed the gruesome scene. A huge thank you goes out to our local emergency services and spectators who helped on scene. Your rapid response makes me proud to be a Northern Nevadan.

Many of you know the National Championship Air Races are a big part of our family tradition. My husband, a pilot of 30+ years, enjoys the races more than Christmas. Every year we host friends, often from around the globe, and celebrate the unique camaraderie of the aviation community. This year was the first in 13 years we haven’t had out-of-town guests. Thank heaven.

Thank you to our wonderful family and friends for your telephone calls, texts, tweets, emails and blog comments. It means to world to us that you checked in on us. I am beyond thankful our family was home safe when the tragedy happened. Pete and his dad picked the right day to leave the Races early. I am numb, nauseous and tearful, and counting our blessings.

** The photo above is Jack at the 2009 National Championship Air Races

Nevada Discovery Museum

Downtown Reno’s Nevada Discovery Museum is finally here! The grand opening is September 10. Today was a soft opening for museum members. Kids and parents played and explored. It was simply fantastic.

The kids agreed the Cloud Climber was “The Best”. Jack loved the music room, Kate had fun play camping “Under the Stars” and Daddy raved about the renewable energy displays. As for me, I’m gushing over the abundant natural light; perfect for great photo ops. Our whole family had a blast and can’t wait to return.

Below are photos of our day.

Reno Tahoe Odyssey

A quick shout out to the Scattered Daisies, a group of 12 incredible women running the Reno Tahoe Odyssey. The Reno/Tahoe Odyssey is a relay adventure with teams of 12 runners on a 178 mile course. Each runner runs 3 legs, each varying in distance as well as elevation. It begins in Downtown Reno, travels through the Sierra Nevada mountains and along the shores of Lake Tahoe, circles back through the Northern Nevada high desert to the start.

Last year the Scattered Daisies were kind enough to do an inspiring interview with me. You can read it here and here. It’s a great motivator for those of us trying to find balance in our crazy lives.

Below are photos taken at this year’s starting line. Go Scattered Daisies!

Featured Artist | Midori Ishibashi

Midori Ishibashi is an artist, teacher and native Nevadan. I met Midori in high school when her artistic aspirations were just taking flight. Since our high school days, Midori has studied art at UNR, earned a masters degree in art education and traveled the world as an art teacher. Last year she returned to Reno to share her talents with local youth and adults.

Visit her website, Ickybeany Art Center to view her work and learn more about the classes she offers.

Thank you, Midori, for taking the time to share your artistic journey and philosophy with us. I’m inspired to pick up my journal and take on a new challenge!

Please give us a brief bio:

I’m a native Nevadan who’s spent the last eleven years being lucky enough to be both an art teacher and artist. I’ve recently relocated to Reno after having spent six amazing years teaching art abroad in international schools in Berlin, Germany and Istanbul, Turkey. I’m currently teaching part-time at Depoali Middle School, and for VSA (formerly Very Special Arts)… I’ve also opened my own in-home art school, the Ickybeany Art Center, in which I offer private classes for students of all ages.

My biggest passion is dispelling the myth that being an artist is an innate skill that you’re  either born with or your not. The truth? ANYONE can learn to think and work as an artist… it just takes the right teacher and some practice. Art, just like any other subject, is something that SOME people pick up naturally… but most of us need to be TAUGHT those skills, and then we need to PRACTICE them. Consider this: most of us wouldn’t know how to read and write if someone hadn’t taught us those skills, and if we hadn’t then practiced at it. The same is true of art. And there is no greater joy than seeing that spark of joy in a student’s eyes when they recognize that they CAN do art and are visibly proud of something they’ve created.Creativity is such an essential 21st century skill, and helping to foster that in students of all ages… helping students learn to think and view the world as artists… is a true joy.

When did you first discover your creative talents?

I’ve always loved to draw from the time I was young. Both of my parents are fairly artistic, so I had a lot of practice throughout my life. I remember one particular class that I had as an young child (probably 4th grade or so) with a local art teacher and friend, Kathy Sederquist, in which she praised a particular drawing of a hand that I’d done… she said that the ability to draw photorealistically is a rare thing and that I had real talent.

What medium(s) do you work in?

I love to work with acrylic paints, collage, and printmaking, though most recently I’ve discovered a love for simple sketching… toting a small sketchbook and felt-tipped pens around, and sitting and sketching when there’s a spare moment.

PC290077

Please include a piece you are particularly proud of and tell us why:

Here are several that I’m proud of for several reasons…

PC290077 is a collaborative piece from a sketchbook exchange that I started with a group of art teachers from Europe and the Middle East. Each of us bought/made an accordion-style fold-out sketchbook. We then created the first entry in the sketchbook (filled 2-3 pieces of the accordion with an artwork), then we mailed it to the next teacher in the group who then added onto the previous piece. I got the idea from my former art assistant, an amazing artist herself, who participates in a number of Moleskine Exchanges with other artists from around the world. This particular piece was begun by an art teacher in Basel, Switzerland (the theme of her piece was “movement”). The then mailed it to an art teacher in Spain, who added the image of the bird in the middle… who then mailed it to me. I added a self-portrait of myself on a windy day in Istanbul, which continued with the original theme of movement, and played off of the Spanish teacher’s fairly traditional landscape drawing. The project is a great artistic challenge, and allows one to grow in new ways, by having to merge your own style with that of other artists. You can follow the work of the exchange on our blog.

Damla Techno

The other images are students’ work… the “Damla Techno” image represents a huge milestone with one of my former 12th graders in Istanbul. She struggled immensely with the rigorous IB (International Baccalaureate) art curriculum’s requirement that she create original and personally relevant artwork. She began the course in 11th grade with fairly basic artistic skills and was consistently producing work that was painfully generic and lacking in any sort of personality or originality.  With this piece, she finally delved deeper– into her experience of moving from New York to Istanbul, exploring the contrast between the music and club scenes in the two cities. In this piece she captures the bustling, chaotic, tumultuousness of life in Istanbul by visually recreating the sounds of the techno music so loved by Turkish club-goers. She refers to Istanbul’s most prominent sights (domed mosques and the mighty Bosphorus bridge) not through generic and overused beautiful silhouettes, but through stylized and abstracted (techno-ized) lines and shapes.

The last two images are from my newest teaching work this year with VSA… I’ve had the immense pleasure of working for the first time with physically and mentally disabled students. The life and liveliness of their artwork is refreshing and incredibly fun. The first is an automatic drawing,  produced by a middle school student with Down’s syndrome. Its Basquiat-like energy and naivete has a beautiful and powerful spontaneity that is like no other work I’ve seen from any previous students. The last image is also from a developmentally disabled middle school student. We were creating Eric Carle-style insect collages. Each student’s collage had such unique personality and life… and this student spontaneously, with no prompting, decided to title his “Mango Ruby Run.” How can you not love that???

How has your style evolved over time?

During my time at UNR, I was lost. I looked around me at other students’ and professors’ work and thought that art had to be ugly and “angsty” in order to be “good.” I produced a series on the theme of movement and dance, and did a lot of “easy” paintings… and although I did have a passion for dance, I lacked the artistic insight and self-awareness to really challenge myself or put a truly meaningful personal voice into my work. While pursuing my master’s of art education I was inspired by fellow students and began a series of still life paintings, focussing on zooming in and taking the time to appreciate the beauty of the everyday objects all around us. From that point on my work became more personally relevant. One series focussed on relating the humor, trials and tribulations of becoming a teacher. My work while living overseas was inspired by the joy, comedy, fascination and absurdities that one experiences when immersed in viewing a culture through the lens of a total outsider. And now that I’m back in Reno… well, I haven’t yet begun my next body of work. I’ve currently produced small sketches that reflect small excerpts from the life and dialogue that I see/hear around me.

What inspires or motivates you?

Life inspires and motivates me. When I sit down somewhere and force myself to look for subject matter, it opens my eyes and ears to interesting things all around me that I might otherwise have been blind to.  I love to find the humor in life… seeing something funny or amusing is a great source of inspiration… a tall jar of long phallic Wurst in a German grocery store, the incredibly uncomfortable yet high tech and pricey subway seats in Athens, an old man sitting next to me and staring me down unabashedly on a bus in Istanbul… a random snippet of conversation (“Those Filipinos really love their karaoke…”)….  Seeing an interesting face or a form also always provides great motivation to get my sketchbook out and start sketching.

What artists influence you?


I love the humor and light-hearted joy in the work of Claus Oldenburg, Wayne Thiebaud, Jeff Koons, Henri Matisse, and Joan Miro. The creativity of Vik Muniz’s photographs and unique perspective on the world is also quite inspiring.  Additionally a number of my artist-friends: Samantha Zaza, Liz Bashore-Heeren, Alexandra Cheshire, Benjamin Rubloff, and Jenny Eschedor have all inspired me time and time again.Describe yourself in three words:

Optimistic, passionate, caring.

Advice for aspiring artists:

Be true to yourself… focus on what makes you YOU, and use that for inspiration for your work. (What does the world look like through YOUR eyes?)  It’s also absolutely essential that you constantly push yourself to reach new heights and take on new artistic challenges… the best work is work that is difficult… that gets frustrating at times, and that you problem-solve through. I recently cleaned out my mom’s storage unit and filled an entire trash can with the easy yet terrible work that I produced in college… I did what was easy and what I was (somewhat) good at… I repeated my past successes rather than pushing myself to continue growing, and as a result… I produced a whole body of VERY mediocre work!!

Also it’s important that you allow yourself to play… invent new techniques; try new things. My favorite quote:

“Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep.” -Scott Adams (American cartoonist)

What is your favorite Reno Hot Spot or event?

I don’t think I’ve been immersed back into Reno culture enough to know of any particular events… favorite spot in Reno is sitting on a rock on the Truckee River. Ultimate frisbee at Reno High on Saturdays is also a highlight, as are the free Latin dance classes at the Edge (in the Peppermill) every Friday night.

Where can we find you:

You can find me on my website: www.ickybeanyarts.com

Do you have any upcoming events you’d like us to know about?

I’ve got a new adult art class is beginning on Monday, April 18th: “From ‘Artistically Challenged’ to Artist”. Also new after-school art classes for elementary school students are beginning at Van Gorder Elementary School (Mondays from 3:30-4:30) on April 25th, and at Spanish Springs Elementary School (Tuesdays from 3:30-4:30) on April 19th. To register for those go to the VSA website.

This summer I’ll be teaching at Kids University and will be offering some drawing/painting classes for adults and teens as well. You can email me to receive notification of upcoming classes. And next school year I’ll be hunting for a job again, as I’m on a one-year contract with Washoe County, so if you need an art teacher… call me! :)

Giving Back

Lila, age 4, is a Reno artist and entrepreneur. She creates jewelry and art to sell at local craft fairs and events. While she’s living her dream and being her authentic preschooler self, she’s also living with Cerebral Palsy. To learn more about Lila or make a donation for her upcoming stem cell treatment, please visit her mom’s blog: mommyyouknowwhat

To raise awareness of Lila’s journey and her family’s fundraising efforts, my friend Sarah is hosting the blog hop. The task at hand? Blog about what giving back means to me. Oh my, where to begin?

I’m the first to admit I live a privileged life. I have a supportive husband who makes me laugh and two healthy, intelligent children. I’m keenly aware of the gifts I have under my own roof. I desperately want to give something back as a thank you for my blessings. But how?

For me the answer is simple: Raise two compassionate human beings to send into the world.
Here’s how I hope to do it:

  • Demonstrate kindness. Example: There’s a homeless couple who lives near us. They’ve been there for years. Now and then, my husband will bring them a blanket and clean socks or a gift card for a nearby fast food restaurant. Instead of hiding them from our kids, we let them see him talking with them, shaking their hands and helping, even if it’s just a little.
  • Support beloved charities every month. Just like we pay our mortgage every month, we also give something to a beloved charity each month. When I sit down to choose each months charity I include the kids. We talk about who we want to help and why. I let them see me write the check and they accompany me to the post office to send it or we deliver it in person.
  • Give locally. We try to give to local charities so the kids can connect the dots between their familiar neighborhood and the needs of people and animals who share their community.
  • Donate toys: This can be a challenging one… every few months the kids and I go through their rooms and choose toys they’ve outgrown to donate to local children. The challenge is the kids must give toys that are in good condition and McDonald’s toys don’t count. While there have been tears and tantrums, there have also been smiles and stories laced with pride and self worth.
  • Volunteer. Our kids are reaching an age where we can begin volunteering. I’m looking forward to volunteering as a family. The best is yet to come!

My quest to raise compassionate children has just begun. I hope to find creative outlets to give back as a family and teach my children to follow their own moral compasses. What ideas do you have for teaching children to give back?

For the last blog hop post, please visit: Stacie’s Jewelry